You don’t need the most extravagant outfit, the biggest following, or the wildest energy to become someone that everybody loves to rave with. The people we remember most are the ones who make us feel safe, seen, and alive.
Here are five ways to be everyone’s favorite raver.
Read The Energy
Being fun doesn’t always mean being loud. Some moments call for electrified hype, others for calm presence. Pay attention to how your friends are doing—physically, emotionally, energetically—and adjust accordingly. The best people to rave with are the ones who know when to turn up and when to hold space.
Share Without Being Asked
Got extra water? Offer it. Sunscreen? Pass it around. A portable charger? Lifesaver. These small acts of generosity create massive trust and show that you truly care for others. The people everyone loves to rave with are the ones who come prepared, not just for themselves, but for the well-being of the group.
Be Reliable When It Counts
It’s easy to be fun when things are going great. But what about when someone loses their phone, gets overwhelmed, or needs help getting back to camp? Be the person who stays calm, helps solve the problem, and doesn’t contribute negative energy when things get real. The bonds built during these challenging moments can create a lifetime of trust.
Respect Everyone’s Vibe
Don’t pressure your friends to do what you’re doing. If someone wants to leave the stage early, stay sober, or take a break, let them. Honor their experience without forcing your own plans upon them. When you can let go of your own ego to show empathy, it goes a long way. The best people to rave with are the ones who create freedom, not friction.
Hype Others Up
There’s something magnetic about the person who dances like nobody’s watching and still hypes everyone else up at the same time. Compliment outfits. Pass out sprouts. Pull a shy friend into the circle without putting them on blast. When your joy makes other people feel more like themselves, that’s when you become unforgettable.
Featured image courtesy: Insomniac Events. Credit: Meredith Wohl.
